This is the view of Royal Chundu from the Zambezi river. Stand alone villas, beautifully appointed, each blessed with an inspiring deck reaching out into the water – seemingly purpose built to while away the hours.
A few precious minutes snatched one early morning, away from the wedding hubbub and a moment of quiet at the subsequent reception resulted in the most intense feeling of dejavu!
In my youth, especially at high school, I was never much concerned with the whole “fitting in” and “being part of the in crowd” phenomenon. I liked to do my own thing, at my own pace and be with people of my choosing.
Bizarrely, post appetiser and pre mains – bombarded by conversation and music there was a resounding take two …..
Done pretending to be interested in mundane conversation
Done trying to fit the mould … daughter-in-law / sister-in-law
Done caring whether you approve
Comfortable being me – partner/friend/wife/lover/fine woman